Ruth Chang’s TED talk clarifies one of the most important question that youths all over the world find difficult to come to terms with; here is a talk that will literarily change your life. Which career should I pursue? Should I get married to Shade or Mercy? Should I stay at my job or further my education? Big decisions like this can be agonizingly difficult. Well, that may be because we think about these decisions the wrong way; she offers a powerful new framework for shaping who we truly are. You can watch talk below: