The easiest way to detect that your love is waxing cold towards your partner is tolerance; tolerance is simply going against your inner desire. It is actually worse than “hate” because in the case of “hate”; you have resolved your feelings towards your partner. It’s either you are hot or cold; white or black or love or hate because not taking a true position on how you feel towards the person you vowed to spend your life with will definitely affect you ability to move forward in every aspect of your life.
Tolerance is resistance to love; we are built in such a way that we create a thick line between love and hate especially towards those that we are emotionally involved with. In the movie; “Why did I get Married?” by Tyler Perry; Tyler explored the possibility of resolving Marriage ruts and conflicts by changing locations without the influence of kids, friends, relatives, etc. This particular solution to Marriage rut was also explored in the movie; “Couples Retreat”. You can watch any of these movies @ Mobile Moviz.
Though, this solution sounds like a good idea; just you and your spouse without external influences and having fun together in a different location; but I have never personally experienced it so I cannot be sure it would work. Despite my inexperience, I guess if I was in this situation, I will be open to it. Instead of tolerance, why not iron the issues out in an isolated location and who knows; may be? This is why I was impressed with VEDUTA NOVA’s attempt to organize a couples retreat in Dubai:
Be part of a journey that’ll engage your mind in a paradigm shift and take your relationship to another level which will take place from August 2nd – 5th, 2010.
Welcome to Dubai, city of merchants, cultural crossroads, second largest of the seven United Arab Emirates: A country where the dust of the desert is clearing to reveal the potential for one of the most significant international cities of the 21st century.
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Package includes:
• Return Airport Transfers from Dubai Airport (i.e. Airport – Hotel – Airport)
• Desert Safari with Barbecue dinner
• Half day Dubai city tour
• Dhow Cruise with dinner and transfers
• 14 Days VISA
• Rooms in a 4 Star Hotel on Twin Share basis
• Plus Membership of a Prestigious International Club with awesome EXTRA’s!
All for an amazing offer of =N=250,000 per person
If you already have open flight tickets or wish to take care of your flights yourself, you can still be a part of this adventure for =N=130,000 per person
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