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Dear readers, it’s been awfully long since I posted anything on “ask d POeT” but I sure do have a lot of back log which I would be posting intermittently. Mrs. H got the John Maxwell book she requested from us and we have not seized to continue praying for her.I would have to use my descretion to select the ones I would publish next. Now that the first semester of my MBA program comes to a close this month, I would surely dedicate enough time to this site. I have a lot of goodies coming your way but first let’s aid Mrs. Battered; she really needs our help.

Dear team members,                                    

I came across this team just about 30mins ago. and i know sharing this with u will give me a sense of relief. 

I am only 3months old in marriage and I’m not finding it easy at all. I got married to somebody i courted for 7yrs.I have always known him to be a very hostile person but each time he shows his hostility he accuses me of being at fault every time. He was my first and only boyfriend but he treats me just too badly. 

Let me share this that happened recently, he is a legally practitioner who has been with a law firm 3yrs and has been complaining that his boss has not been treating him well, soon after we got married he started showing unseriousness in his job and i advised to take things easy at after 6months into the year he can take up the decision to quit. He has not been taking heed to my opinion like 2wks back he went late to the office and his boss to it up with him by giving him a suspension letter in anger he wrote his resignation letter and left on getting home from work he told the whole story and I was not very happy with the step he took. 

Meanwhile i was having menstrual cramps on that day and my husband didn’t just give me any attention. He started saying all manner of things to me that night. just this Monday as I was preparing to go to the office i ask him if we could pray together concerning his job and his response was just to poor in a nutshell he has been transferring the aggression of his voluntary actions to me. like I told him out of annoyance that he did what paid his ass why should he always pick on me he just came into the kitchen started using foul words on ,beat me said my legs are bad in his house i just kept quiet got dressed and left for the office. 

i really feel like quitting I’ve always prayed to God to help. He has really killed my emotions. I’m tired of his brutality. What can I do? Please help, if its all my fault my ready to change. I don’t want to bring shame to my family there isn’t any record of such.  

           Yesterday night i prayed and the scriptural verse that gave me the conviction about him was what I read unknowing to me. Please help me out.

Mrs. B

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